The Vow of Priority
Have you ever wondered why so many marriages seem to struggle? You’re not alone. Many of us have idealised visions of what marriage should be, only to find reality falling short. But what if the key to a thriving marriage lies not in finding the perfect partner but in setting the right priorities? This week, we’re diving into the first of four vows that can transform your relationship: the vow of priority.
The main point of this sermon is simple yet profound: God should be your number one priority, and your spouse should be your number two. This might sound counterintuitive, especially when the world often tells us to find "the one" who completes us. But when we place our spouse in the position meant for God, we set ourselves up for disappointment and chaos. Instead, by putting God first, we create a solid foundation for a marriage that honors Him and blesses our partner.
Why Prioritize God First?
When God is your number one, everything else falls into place. Jesus taught us to "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength." This means that our relationship with God should be the most important aspect of our lives. When we prioritize God, we invite His wisdom, love, and strength into our marriage, allowing us to love our spouse more fully and selflessly.
The Danger of Misplaced Priorities
When we make our spouse our number one, we risk idolizing them. This can lead to unrealistic expectations and eventual disappointment. As seen in the story of Adam and Eve, when priorities are misplaced, chaos ensues. Adam initially idolized Eve, but when things went wrong, he blamed her, demonstrating how quickly idolization can turn into demonization. By keeping God as our priority, we prevent this cycle and maintain a healthy, balanced relationship.
Action Steps to Prioritize God
Daily Devotion: Start each day with prayer and scripture reading. This sets the tone for your day and keeps God at the forefront of your mind.
Pray Together: Make it a habit to pray with your spouse. This not only strengthens your relationship with God but also deepens your connection with each other.
Serve Together: Find ways to serve in your church or community as a couple. This shared purpose can bring you closer and align your priorities with God’s mission.
Guard Your Time: Protect your time with God and your spouse. In a world full of distractions, be intentional about setting aside time for both.
Conclusion
The vow of priority is about aligning your life with God’s design. By making God your number one, you create a marriage that not only survives but thrives. So, what will you do this week to put God first in your life and marriage? Remember, without taking this step, you might miss out on the fullness of what God intends for your relationship.