Others Matter

You might wonder why putting others first is so important. In a world that often encourages us to prioritize our own needs and ambitions, it can be challenging to shift our focus outward. But what if I told you that embracing a mindset of humility and selflessness could transform not only your life but also the lives of those around you? This is the heart of the message from Philippians 2:1-4, where Paul urges us to "do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility regard others as better than yourselves." Let's explore how this principle can make a profound difference in our daily lives.

The Power of Humility and Selflessness

Imagine a world where everyone puts others' needs before their own. How different would our communities, workplaces, and families look? This is not just a lofty ideal but a practical way of living that Jesus modelled for us. Nelson Mandela's life offers a modern example of this principle in action. Despite facing immense personal sacrifice, Mandela chose to fight for the rights of others, embodying the humility and selflessness that Paul describes.

Mandela's story challenges us to consider how we can put others' interests above our own. Whether it's in our families, workplaces, or communities, we are called to embody the same humility and selflessness. By doing so, we honour the way of Jesus and contribute to a more just and compassionate world.

What Does It Mean to Be "In Christ"?

Being "in Christ" means more than just believing in Him; it means being united with Him in every aspect of our lives. This union transforms us, making us more like Jesus in our thoughts, actions, and attitudes. When we are in Christ, we draw from His abundant source of encouragement, love, and compassion. This spiritual connection empowers us to live out the principles Paul outlines in Philippians 2:1-4.

Paul's plea for unity and humility is not just a suggestion but a call to action. He urges us to be of the same mind, having the same love, and being in full accord and of one mind. This unity is not about flattening our differences but about aligning our moral and spiritual orientations. It's about fostering a genuine unity of direction and purpose, allowing the sense of what God put us here to accomplish to override personal preferences and petty disagreements.

Practical Steps to Put Others First

So, how can we practically put others first in our daily lives? Here are some concrete steps you can take:

1. Excellence Matters: Strive for excellence in all you do, not for your own glory but to benefit others. Whether it's at work, home, or church, doing your best can positively impact those around you.

2. Presence Matters: Show up. Being present, whether at church, in your community, or with your family, demonstrates that you value others. Arriving early and being engaged shows your regard for others over yourself.

3. Serving Matters: Use your gifts to serve others. Jesus said, "I am among you as one who serves." When we serve, we follow His example and show hospitality to those around us.

4. Inviting Matters: One of the greatest acts of hospitality is to invite others to meet Jesus and His people. Our church exists for those who are not yet in it. By inviting others, we put their eternal interests ahead of our temporal ones.

Conclusion

The point is simple: Others matter. When we make others' interests our ambition, we follow the example of Jesus, who humbled Himself for our sake. This week, consider how you can prioritize the well-being of others in your daily life. What steps will you take to put others first?

If you don't take this step, you'll miss out on the transformative power of living like Jesus. But if you do, you'll experience a deeper connection with God and a more meaningful life. So, what will you do this week to make others your priority?

Prayer

Dear Jesus, thank you for showing us the way of humility and selflessness. Help us to put others first in our daily lives, just as you did for us. Give us the strength to serve, the courage to invite, and the love to be present for those around us. May our lives reflect your grace and compassion. Amen.

Léonce B. Crump Jr.